12 practical items you need to elevate your life
Category: dating
Does Casual Sex Benefit Women? (my thoughts)
Does casual sex benefit women or have we evolved beyond it?
How I Leveled Up (Black Plus Sized edition)
Think leveling up isn't for you? Think again.
Find a Quaranting Online: A Guide to Dating Apps
A review of the top online dating apps and tips on how to secure a quaranting.
For the Twenty-somethings who will turn Thirty- something
Although it may only seem like a few years' difference, a lot happens between your 20s and 30s.
It’s Autumn! Don’t be a #pickme.
Being single during autumn can tempt the #pickme within. Don't let it.
Hi, I Created the #pickme Hashtag
Some time in 2016, I created the hashtag #tweetlikeapickme. Fresh off the heels of breaking off a relationship and coming into my own as a well rounded professional, I was happy being single. Using twitter regularly, I began seeing more and more of women (pick me's) tweeting about how they were SO much better than… Continue reading Hi, I Created the #pickme Hashtag
Stop Being Nice to Men
Now that I've gotten your attention, let me explain. Stop being nice to men. And by nice, I mean being an overly accommodating, low maintenance, overthinking doormat. While you're busy being a hot girl in the tweets, your paragraph texts tell a different story. Over the last few years, I've regularly written about reclaiming your… Continue reading Stop Being Nice to Men
What I’ve learned about love, sex, and relationships so far
In less than 24 hours, I will be turning 30. When I started this blog 5 years ago, I was in a completely different space, feeling trapped in a relationship that I felt I needed to be in, shedding harmful habits, and struggling to make a name for myself in an industry that I was… Continue reading What I’ve learned about love, sex, and relationships so far
Stop Telling Black Women to Settle
Black women deserve to be entitled.