Is it really a crime to want a man who earns more?
"So what's going on?" This was the first thing my new therapist said to me after we exchanged initial greetings. I looked down, away from the small screen of my phone (which was propped up on the napkin dispenser that sat atop my dining room table), took a deep breath, and said "my relationship". I'd… Continue reading The Relationship that Almost Killed Me
Although it may only seem like a few years' difference, a lot happens between your 20s and 30s.
Dating can be hard but is it harder when you're plus sized?
Being single during autumn can tempt the #pickme within. Don't let it.
Some time in 2016, I created the hashtag #tweetlikeapickme. Fresh off the heels of breaking off a relationship and coming into my own as a well rounded professional, I was happy being single. Using twitter regularly, I began seeing more and more of women (pick me's) tweeting about how they were SO much better than… Continue reading Hi, I Created the #pickme Hashtag
How I tripled my income in 4 years. (Surprise, no cash windfall from my parents)
Ah, the joys of group trips where half who signed up drop out when the deposits are due, few are late with payments, arguments ensue about accommodations, and all before you even board the plane! Let's face it, group trips can be enjoyable but most, if not all, come with some drama or arguments. If… Continue reading So You Want to Take a Solo Trip?
Good things are coming 😄
Now that I've gotten your attention, let me explain. Stop being nice to men. And by nice, I mean being an overly accommodating, low maintenance, overthinking doormat. While you're busy being a hot girl in the tweets, your paragraph texts tell a different story. Over the last few years, I've regularly written about reclaiming your… Continue reading Stop Being Nice to Men