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Self-Love in a Time of Corona(virus)
Here's how I maintain my mental health in the midst of #coronavirus
For the Twenty-somethings who will turn Thirty- something
Although it may only seem like a few years' difference, a lot happens between your 20s and 30s.
It’s Autumn! Don’t be a #pickme.
Being single during autumn can tempt the #pickme within. Don't let it.
So You Want to Take a Solo Trip?
Ah, the joys of group trips where half who signed up drop out when the deposits are due, few are late with payments, arguments ensue about accommodations, and all before you even board the plane! Let's face it, group trips can be enjoyable but most, if not all, come with some drama or arguments. If… Continue reading So You Want to Take a Solo Trip?
What I’ve learned about love, sex, and relationships so far
In less than 24 hours, I will be turning 30. When I started this blog 5 years ago, I was in a completely different space, feeling trapped in a relationship that I felt I needed to be in, shedding harmful habits, and struggling to make a name for myself in an industry that I was… Continue reading What I’ve learned about love, sex, and relationships so far
Stop Telling Black Women to Settle
Black women deserve to be entitled.
Y’all Still Together?: When Friends Don’t like Your Man
My best friend has a habit of holding on to perceived offenses, and then disclosing those feelings at random times. In the 22 years of our friendship, I've pretty much mastered the art of knowing how to navigate her Capricorn-ness. So it came as a surprise when she told me a few years ago that… Continue reading Y’all Still Together?: When Friends Don’t like Your Man
Time to Skidaddle: Leaving an Unfulfilling Job
It's been a while since I've discussed issues surrounding the workplace and since my personal and professional life tend to move in tandem, it's time I share my personal tips on knowing when and how to leave a job. There are plenty of articles that do a great job of listing signs that it's time to quit.… Continue reading Time to Skidaddle: Leaving an Unfulfilling Job
Fight or flight
A few months ago, the following conversation took place between me and a close friend: Friend: Hey Adri, how’s it going with [insert guy’s name here]? Me: Who? Girl, please. I had to cancel that. Friend (to another friend who had joined the conversation): Man, Adri cuts these guys off quick. You don’t give anyone… Continue reading Fight or flight
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