"Why do women let themselves be taken advantage of?" he asked, as he took another swig of beer. My friend was pissed. He'd been dating a girl who was beautiful, smart, ambitious, and kind. And she was stuck on a guy who "wasn't ready for a relationship". I sympathized with him because I, too, have been… Continue reading “I’m Not Ready” and Other Lies Men Tell
“Did You F-k Him?” That time I was almost Issa
SPOILER ALERT: If you haven't seen the latest episode of Insecure that aired on 11/20/16, please stop reading. This entry is littered with spoilers.If you're a fan of Issa Rae's new hit show "Insecure" you'll recognize the title of this blog as the most pivotal point in the debut series to date.After years of harboring… Continue reading “Did You F-k Him?” That time I was almost Issa
2016: The Year of the Post F-kboy Glow Up
As the title of this post may suggest, I’m rather confident about this year. The winter was mild on the East Coast, people are becoming more health conscious, and flight deals are out of this world. Have you seen the sale for a flight from JFK to Greece for like $300?! Anyways, with that being… Continue reading 2016: The Year of the Post F-kboy Glow Up
Netflix and Chill is Stupid (and so is Cuffing Season)
Netflix and chill is stupid (and so is cuffing season). Date when and how you want. Just be honest.
When Loved Correctly
Healthy love is an ongoing project. Should we be so quick to discount our contribution?
Let that hurt go: The Slow Reveal
Let the hurt go and slowly reveal your personality.
The Starting Five
So you're dating smart? Now keep your options open.
Date Smart, Not Around
After learning to love yourself, you're ready to date. Let's get down the business on dating smart, not around.
We all want the same thing
Floyd (Kelis) Seems like no one is surprising Anymore, it's not that I'm Ungrateful, I'm just a little bored Sure I'm self sufficient blah blah Independent. Truthfully I've got Some space. I want that Man to fill it Seems like no one wants to actually admit that they want something. If you’ve read my last… Continue reading We all want the same thing
The Single Story: Making the Best out of Valentine’s Day
As Valentine's Day approaches, most of us have been inundated with the red and pink frenzy of the holiday. Trips to the pharmacy, grocery store, and department store are now punctuated with aisles laden in enough chocolate, candy, and hearts to make anyone sick. And for my single readers, this can be the straw that breaks… Continue reading The Single Story: Making the Best out of Valentine’s Day